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How C*m

Aug 4, 2019

This week’s guest is Ev’Yan Whitney: sexuality doula™, sex educator & facilitator, and the host of the podcast The Sexually Liberated Woman. Ev'yan has helped thousands of women and femme-identifying people step out of shame, fear, and trauma and into sexual liberation through  online courses, in-person workshops, and one-on-one sessions. In this episode we hear Ev'yan's story of how personal traumas and struggles of enjoying sex with her husband led to helping others-- and herself. We talk about her growth, what it means to be a queer person in a heteronormative seeming relationship, what being “ready” for sex really means, and how Ev’Yan and her husband took the steps to enter into an open relationship. We also discuss some of the assignments Ev'yan gives clients, as well as favorite success stories. 

CW- Heteronormative language 

NOTE: Ev'yan came out with they/them pronouns a few years after this episode, cumgrats! 

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